family edition WE'RE NOT REALLY STRANGERS	⊹ what do you think my favorite/least favorite holiday is? explain. ⊹ from your perspective, how would you describe my relationship with work or school? ⊹ how important do you think birthdays are to me? explain. ⊹ for siblings: growing up, who got away with more? ⊹ if our family had a netflix series, what would it be called? ⊹ if i have the aux on a family road trip, what am i most likely to put on? ⊹ who is most likely to read through the terms and conditions? ⊹ for children to ask parents: in what ways was my childhood different than yours? get specific. ⊹ who in our family do you feel you know the most/least? why do you think that is? ⊹ what warning sign should be outside our family home? ⊹ describe what you think a day in my life looks like. get specific. ⊹ how do i show you i'm in a bad mood without telling you? ⊹ who would you cast to play each of us in a movie based on our life? ⊹ in one word, how would you describe my role in the family? ⊹ if we were on family feud, who would win the most points for us? ⊹ growing up, how strict do you feel our household was on a scale of 1-10? explain. ⊹ what would you bring home to cheer me up after i've had a bad day? ⊹ do you think i ever snuck out of the house growing up? why or why not? ⊹ what is my comfort tv show and how many times do you think i've watched it? ⊹ what do you think was my strongest subject in school? my weakest? ⊹ what compliment do you think i hear the most? what don't i hear enough? ⊹ what am i really good at that perhaps i'm unaware of? ⊹ do you think i've found my passion in life? what do you think it is? ⊹ who do you think i get my sense of humor from? ⊹ who in our family do you think i'm most similar to? who am i the most different from? explain. ⊹ which one of us is most likely to lead the group out of an escape room successfully? ⊹ if our family made a cookbook, what meals would be included? ⊹ if our family came out with a line of merch, what phrase would we print on a t-shirt? ⊹ what am i most likely to get fired for? ⊹ which friend of mine do you think brings out the best in me? what do they bring out? ⊹ what consistently brings a smile to my face? ⊹ if i were a cartoon character, what would my signature outfit be? ⊹ what do you think i am/was like in school? ⊹ who in our family would you most likely go to for financial advice? what would you ask? ⊹ who in the family are you most likely to go to for relationship advice? what would you ask them? ⊹ what do you think i wanted to be when i grew up? ⊹ who in our family is most likely to get tiktok famous? what would they go viral for? ⊹ how messy do you think my room is right now on a scale of 1-10? explain. ⊹ what do you think is taking up most of my energy these days? how do you think i feel about it? ⊹ how would you describe my relationship with social media in one word? ⊹ who do you think my best friend is and why? ⊹ wildcard: all players rate how unfiltered you feel you can be with our family on a scale of 1-10. compare and explain. ⊹ wildcard: who is most likely to be late to a family gathering? all players say your answers out loud on the count of 3. ⊹ wildcard: all players set your phone to do not disturb. which player is this going to be the hardest for? ⊹ wildcard: which of us is most likely to drive somewhere every day and still get lost? ⊹ wildcard: tell the family member to your right one thing you admire about them and why. ⊹ wildcard: each player writes down one thing that helps you open up emotionally and one thing that shuts you down. share your answers with the family before moving on to the next card. ⊹ wildcard: in one sentence, describe the home you grew up in. 1 minute. share. ⊹ wildcard: collectively rate your family members from best to worst texter. write it down. compare and explain. ⊹ wildcard: what do you think our family's superpower is? write it down. compare and explain. ⊹ wildcard: give each family member a superlative (best dressed, most likely to befriend a stranger, most likely to cry in public, etc). get creative. ⊹ wildcard: write down how open-minded you think our family is on a scale of 1-10. 10 being extremely open-minded. compare and explain. ⊹ wildcard: tell the group your favorite memory that you share with the person sitting on your left. ⊹ wildcard: who in the family has gotten the most speeding tickets? everyone says your answer out loud on the count of 3. ⊹ wildcard: take a family selfie! bonus: send it to someone who wishes were here. ⊹ wildcard: which one of us is most likely to put an ice cream carton back in the fridge with just one bite left? everyone says your answer out loud on the count of 3. ⊹ reminder: there's always another layer to everyone you think you know best.	⊹ what's your favorite thing about being home? ⊹ how likely are you to bring a significant other home to meet us? what is something you'd warn them about beforehand? ⊹ who do you consider family that you're not related to? what is their name and one thing about them? ⊹ what is the most valuable lesson our family has taught you about work ethic? explain. ⊹ what is the most valuable lesson our family has taught you about love? explain. ⊹ what boundary do you wish you had set with our family sooner? how can we honor it now? ⊹ what conversation feels overdue in our family? go easy or go deep. ⊹ what's your favorite thing about this chapter in your life? ⊹ how does our family deal with conflict? what's one small thing we can work on? ⊹ is there anything you've struggled to share with our family? permission to share now if you feel ready. ⊹ what are you proudest of yourself for getting through this past year? ⊹ what are you proudest of our family for getting through? ⊹ what area of your life have you gained more confidence in recently? what's helped you get there? ⊹ when do you come to our family for help instead of anyone else? ⊹ what is a family memory that still makes you laugh to this day? ⊹ what's your grandfather's name and one thing about him? ⊹ when was the last time you took a risk that paid off? ⊹ what have you learned to accept about yourself over time? what's helped you get there? ⊹ has a teacher ever changed your life? if so, what was their name, and what would you say to them today? ⊹ in what ways are you most like the people who raised you? ⊹ what's your most vivid memory from your childhood home? describe in detail. ⊹ how do you show up for yourself after a bad day? ⊹ what is the best gift a family member has ever given you? material or immaterial? ⊹ when was the last time you felt most understood by someone in the family? what did they understand? ⊹ when was the last time you felt misunderstood by someone in the family? what do you wish they understood? ⊹ when was the last time you took someone in our family for granted? ⊹ what's one argument you've had with someone in this family that you can laugh at now? ⊹ if you could have a conversation with a loved one who is no longer here, what would you ask them? what would you want them to say? ⊹ what's your grandmother's name and one thing about her? ⊹ what's been the best mistake you've ever made? ⊹ where do our family arguments often stem from? how do you personally contribute? ⊹ what's become more/less important to you over the years? ⊹ for siblings: what family rules have you learned to appreciate as you've gotten older? ⊹ how do you define family beyond just being related? get specific. ⊹ for siblings: what's a vivid memory that you have of me growing up that makes you smile to this day? ⊹ what are you currently working through that our family doesn't see? ⊹ finish the sentence: something that brought a smile to my face this week was _________. ⊹ for parents to answer: how would you describe raising this family in one word? ⊹ what's one lesson you've had to unlearn from growing up in our family? big or small. ⊹ what's something that felt normal growing up that you now realize is special? ⊹ what's something you want the next generation of our family to let go of? ⊹ describe your perfect day with the family. get specific. ⊹ wildcard: all players rate our family's communication skills on a scale of 1-10. how could we improve that by 1 point? ⊹ wildcard: apologize to someone in the group for something big or small. ⊹ wildcard: all players write down your favorite family memory that comes to mind. 1 minute. compare. ⊹ wildcard: cardholder, share a life update with the family you would usually just keep to yourself. ⊹ wildcard: play a round of rock paper scissors with the person sitting in front of you. loser must complete a house chore of the winner's choice. ⊹ wildcard: initiate a family group hug! not the crappy kind. a warm fluffy one! ⊹ wildcard: cardholder, pick a family member who isn't playing the game to text "i love you" to, before flipping to the next card. ⊹ reminder: everyone is doing the best they can with what they know.	⊹ how would you describe our family to a stranger? ⊹ what is my defining characteristic? ⊹ what is our family's defining characteristic? ⊹ what goal do you want to achieve this year? how can our family support you in that? ⊹ how have you seen me evolve recently? what hasn't changed at all? ⊹ what's one small thing i do that makes you feel loved? ⊹ what's something you assumed about me that turned out to be false? ⊹ what parts of yourself do you see in our family? ⊹ in one word, how would you describe our conversation? ⊹ what can you always count on me for? ⊹ what's one promise you want to keep to yourself this year? how can we help you keep it? ⊹ what's one promise you want to keep to our family this year? ⊹ what's an embarrassing family story that should never leave this table? ⊹ what is something about us that only our family would understand? ⊹ for children to answer: finish the sentence, i'm thankful you raised me to be _________. ⊹ what do you think i should let go of? ⊹ finish this sentence: before this game is over i want our family to know _________. ⊹ what do you need right now from our family that you aren't communicating, if anything? ⊹ who deserves a round of applause? what for? ⊹ what do you need today? ⊹ how do our personalities complement each other? ⊹ from your perspective, what is something i do that seems effortless? ⊹ when do you miss our family the most? ⊹ what did you learn about yourself throughout this game? ⊹ what surprised you most during the game? or who? ⊹ who did you learn the most about during the game? what did you learn? ⊹ who is the best communicator in our family? what can we learn from them? ⊹ what do you think i would benefit from doing less of? ⊹ what do you think i would benefit from doing more of? ⊹ what do you think our family would benefit from doing more of? ⊹ what subject is our family most qualified to give advice about? ⊹ what's something i could be great at if i invested the time? ⊹ finish the sentence: one small way i can better show up for myself is _________. ⊹ finish the sentence: one small way i can better show up for our family is _________. ⊹ for parents to answer: in what ways do you look up to your children? ⊹ what contribution do i bring to our family that i don't get enough credit for? ⊹ what does our family deserve an award for? ⊹ what do you need from our family in this chapter of your life? ⊹ what am i most qualified to give advice about? ⊹ wildcard: tell the family member to your right one reason you're proud of them and why. ⊹ wildcard: tell the person across from you the biggest lesson you've learned from them. explain. ⊹ wildcard: is there anything you've always wanted to ask a family member but haven't? permission to finally ask. ⊹ wildcard: cardholder, make a toast to the family. ⊹ wildcard: each player writes out one thing our family would benefit from letting go of. share and tear! ⊹ wildcard: thank someone in the group for something big or small. ⊹ wildcard: plan a family gathering for the near future. add to your calendars and follow through. ⊹ wildcard: all players draw a family portrait to the best of your ability. 1 minute. vote for which one goes on the fridge. ⊹ wildcard: create a family theme song. each player writes one line and sing together once complete. get into it. ⊹ reminder: boundaries allow us to love at full capacity. ⊹ reminder: everyone's love looks different.
forgiveness edition WE'RE NOT REALLY STRANGERS	⊹ reminder: an apology isn’t the time to defend yourself. ⊹ when was the last time you were wrong in a situation but didn’t admit it because of pride? ⊹ finish the sentence: the hardest part about forgiveness is _____. ⊹ finish the sentences: i know i’ve forgiven someone when _____. ⊹ what does resentment feel like in your body? what does forgiveness feel like? ⊹ how do you define forgiveness? ⊹ what have you learned about forgiveness as you’ve gotten older? ⊹ what do you need to forgive yourself for today? ⊹ who do you wish you could apologize to? what would you say? ⊹ who do you wish you could receive an apology from, if anybody? what do you wish they would say? ⊹ wildcard: what are you holding on to that’s no longer holding on to you? write it down and rip it up. ⊹ how do you treat yourself when you’ve made a mistake? get specific. ⊹ who took you the longest to forgive? what helped you get there? ⊹ what did you beat yourself up over when you were younger that you can have more empathy for now? ⊹ wildcard: look in the mirror. finish the sentence: i forgive you for _____. ⊹ wildcard: write out one mistake you’ve made recently and the lesson it taught you. ⊹ is there someone in your life you’ve yet to forgive? if so, why? ⊹ when’s the last time you owed someone an apology but didn’t give it to them? what stopped you? ⊹ what did you have to unlearn about forgiveness, if anything? ⊹ has an apology ever stuck with you till this day, or lack thereof? if so, why? ⊹ when was the last time you felt unappreciated by someone? give yourself that validation before flipping to the next card. ⊹ are you punishing yourself for anything right now? how can you show empathy for yourself in the moment? ⊹ who is someone that has forgiven you in the past, that you’re grateful for to this day? ⊹ what’s the hardest thing you’ve had to forgive yourself / someone else for? ⊹ what does an ideal apology look like to you? get specific. ⊹ what does a bad apology look like? get specific. ⊹ reminder: forgive yourself like you did your ex so many times. ⊹ reminder: have more empathy (for yourself too). ⊹ finish the sentence: i’m tired of apologizing for _____. ⊹ when was the last time you gave an ingenuine apology? why? ⊹ wildcard: before apologizing ask yourself: what am i saying sorry for? do i mean it? or am i acting small for someone else’s comfort? ⊹ how forgiving are you towards yourself on a scale of 1-10? how can you increase your answer by 1 point? ⊹ how forgiving are you of other people on a scale of 1-10? how can you increase your answer by 1 point? ⊹ who caught you about forgiveness, directly or indirectly? what did they teach you? ⊹ is there something you haven’t forgiven your ex for? explain. ⊹ finish the sentence: i’m still working on _____. and that’s okay. ⊹ what do you keep having to apologize for that’s within your control to change? ⊹ is there something you haven’t forgiven your parents for? if so, what comes to mind? ⊹ what have you been hardest on yourself for recently? what would you say to a friend going through a similar situation? ⊹ have you been carrying any resentment recently? what’s one small step you can take towards letting it go? ⊹ what title would you give this chapter of your forgiveness journey? ⊹ finish the sentence: i’m working on accepting _____. ⊹ who is the most understanding person you know? send them this card as a thank you. ⊹ who in your life gives the worst apologies? why do they come to mind? ⊹ who in your life gives the best apologies? why do they come to mind? ⊹ is there someone you’ve forgiven who doesn’t know it yet? if so, what’s stopping you? ⊹ what did your childhood teach you about forgiveness? towards other? towards yourself? ⊹ is there someone you owe an apology to that perhaps you’ve overlooked? ⊹ reminder: replace “that was so stupid of me” with “that was so human of me.” ⊹ who have you had to forgive too many times? explain.
WE'RE NOT REALLY STRANGERS	⊹ how has our friendship changed you for the better? ⊹ what was the hardest truth you had to face this year? ⊹ what have you achieved today that your younger self wouldn't believe? ⊹ what am i most likely to get arrested for? ⊹ wildcard: what do you need to hear right now? write it down and tape it to your mirror. seriously, do it. ⊹ imagine i just woke up from a crazy night out. where did i end up? what did i do? what do i regret? ⊹ how would you describe your sex life in one word? ⊹ what is your most unlikely friendship? what makes it work? ⊹ who in your life feels healing to be around? who in your life feels the opposite? ⊹ have you ever had to break up with a friend? ⊹ are any of your insecurities hurting anyone else by accident? ⊹ what used to hurt that you can laugh at now? get specific. ⊹ what are you proudest of yourself for saying "no" to recently? ⊹ what opinion would you be most hesitant to share online? ⊹ what's one small way you could improve your relationship with social media? get specific. ⊹ what am i most likely to get fired for? explain. ⊹ what is the sexiest quality in someone that isn't physical? ⊹ what teacher do you wish you could thank today? explain. ⊹ what does financial security look like for you? get specific. ⊹ what do you wish you could tell your high school self today?
healing edition WE'RE NOT REALLY STRANGERS	⊹ what or who do you need to set a healthy boundary with? explain. ⊹ what’s been the best thing for your mental health lately? get specific. ⊹ what’s been the worst thing for your mental health lately (that’s within your control to change)? reminder: pay attention to who you’re with when you feel your best. ⊹ what does self-care look like for you? get specific. create that day for yourself this week. ⊹ when’s the last time you healed from something you weren’t sure you could move past? ⊹ wildcard: illustrate how your mind feels today. 30 seconds. ⊹ finish the sentence: i’m working on accepting _____. ⊹ reminder: if you’re trying not to think about it, it’s probably time to heal. ⊹ when was the last time you didn’t ask for help, but really needed it? explain. ⊹ reminder: i’m proud of the progress you’re making, no matter how small. ⊹ what piece of advice has helped your mental health the most? ⊹ how do you define happiness? get specific. ⊹ wildcard: take 3 deep breaths before flipping to the next card. hold for 2 seconds between each breath. ⊹ what do you need right now more than anything? ⊹ what song makes you happy? play it in the background while you answer the next few cards. ⊹ what’s something you can say “no” to this week to prioritize your mental health? what’s something you can say “yes” to? ⊹ reminder: you don’t have to have it all figured out right now. sleep on it. ⊹ what’s a boundary you can set with yourself today that will benefit future you? ⊹ wildcard: delete all of your social media apps for a day. journal about how you felt after. ⊹ wildcard: write down the names of everyone you feel unconditionally loved by. make more time for these people (even if it’s yourself). ⊹ what have you been avoiding that deserves your attention? why have you been avoiding it? ⊹ wildcard: admit something (to yourself) ⊹ what hurt your younger self that you never fully healed from? what would you say to your younger self today? ⊹ what’s been causing you unnecessary stress? what would help alleviate that for you? ⊹ wildcard: what promise do you want to keep to yourself this year? write it out and date it. ⊹ what do you understand now about the healing process that you didn’t before? ⊹ wildcard: jump up and down as if you’re celebrating the best news of your life for 30 seconds before flipping to the next card (no seriously, do it). ⊹ wildcard: stretch for 30 seconds before flipping to the next card. ⊹ what’s one thing (big or small) you’re most looking forward to? what about it excites you most? ⊹ wildcard: write out 3 things that made you smile today. ⊹ what is your body telling you today? ⊹ what emotion keeps coming up for you lately? why do you think that is? ⊹ wildcard: what would feel best to let go of today? write it out and rip it up. ⊹ what are you currently healing from that others don’t see? ⊹ what small step can you take towards your healing today? ⊹ when was the first mental health scare you remember having? what stands out to you about it? ⊹ how have you neglected your mental health recently? what’s one small way you can make it up to yourself? ⊹ what’s been draining your energy lately? what’s been giving you energy? get specific. ⊹ how can you contribute to someone else’s happiness today? do that thing, big or small. ⊹ what does prioritizing your mental health look like in this chapter of your life? get specific. ⊹ wildcard: write out an intrusive thought. cross it out. replace it with a positive affirmation. ⊹ finish the sentence: i want to give myself permission to feel _____. what’s getting in the way of that? ⊹ how has your mental health affected your romantic relationships, if at all? ⊹ what title would you give this chapter of your healing journey? ⊹ who’s been good for your mental health? send them a picture of this card as a thank you. ⊹ wildcard: get something off your chest. write it out. 1 minute. don’t overthink it. ⊹ today i’m struggling with _____. ⊹ i know my anxiety is setting in when _____. get specific. ⊹ finish the sentence: i need help with _____.
honest dating expansion pack WE'RE NOT REALLY STRANGERS	⊹ do you think i’m still on good terms with my exes? why or why not? ⊹ what do you think i was like in high school? explain. ⊹ what do you think my drink of choice is? ⊹ what do you think my type is? describe in detail. ⊹ wildcard: write down your three favorite physical features of your partner and read them out loud. both players. ⊹ what was the first thing you noticed about me when we met in person? ⊹ just by looking at me, what would you think i do for a living? ⊹ how many relationships do you think i’ve been in? how many times do you think i’ve been in love? explain.	⊹ what’s a non-negotiable in your life? ⊹ what did the people who raised you teach you about love? how has that shaped your views on love today? ⊹ what was the worst date you’ve ever been on and why? ⊹ wildcard: think of the most underrated show streaming currently. on the count of 3, say your answers out loud. both players. ⊹ what dating advice would you give your younger self? ⊹ wildcard: write down the top three most important qualities in a romantic partner. both players. compare. ⊹ wildcard: give each other tattoos with the nearest pen or marker. 30 seconds. ⊹ what about you has felt repeatedly misunderstood by others, if anything? ⊹ what has being single taught you about yourself? ⊹ how emotionally available do you currently feel? explain. ⊹ what have you tolerated from others in the past that you no longer have space for? ⊹ what are you overthinking right now? ⊹ what is something new you’ve recently learned about yourself? ⊹ who in your life do you feel most yourself around? why? ⊹ wildcard: write down your favorite song lyric you can think of off the top of your head. compare and explain. ⊹ describe your worst heartbreak. what did it teach you? ⊹ how has your view on love evolved over time, if at all? ⊹ what’s the hardest thing about dating you? ⊹ which one of your parents’ personality traits do you want to keep? let go of? ⊹ wildcard: share something you typically wouldn’t on a first date. both players. ⊹ have you ever considered an open relationship? why or why not? ⊹ how do you define “dating”? ⊹ what part of your job energizes you the most? leaves you the most drained? ⊹ what do your friends know about me, if anything? ⊹ what about me intrigued you besides my physical appearance? ⊹ wildcard: write down your top 2 relationship deal breakers. both players. compare. ⊹ when’s the last time you ghosted someone and why? ⊹ has sex ever been a deal breaker in your past relationships? explain. ⊹ i know i really like someone when __________. ⊹ do you have any unconventional opinions when it comes to romantic relationships? ⊹ what are you feeling a lot of lately?	⊹ wildcard: look through each other’s social media. pick your favorite photo. compare and explain. ⊹ how would you describe our date in one word? ⊹ what part of my personality isn’t showcased online? ⊹ what song should i listen to on my way home? ⊹ based on what you’ve learned about me, what do you think i’m looking for romantically? ⊹ what mannerisms of mine stood out the most to you, if any? ⊹ wildcard: write your partner a text outside of your comfort zone at the end of this date. both players. ⊹ if you were to write my dating profile bio, what would it say? ⊹ wildcard: ask literally anything. permission to go there. ⊹ on a scale of 1-10 how “emotionally available” do i seem? explain.
own it expansion pack WE'RE NOT REALLY STRANGERS x DVF	⊹ when was the last time you felt complete zen? who were you with? where were you? what were you doing? ⊹ how would you describe your relationship with yourself in one word? ⊹ what is your x-factor? permission to brag. ⊹ who is a woman in your life that inspires you to be a better person? why does she come to mind? (send her a thank you) ⊹ what still feels vulnerable in your life? what does owning it look like for you? ⊹ who from your past would you want to reunite with? what would you ask them? ⊹ what's the hardest truth you've had to own this past year? what has owning it taught you? ⊹ how has your definition of success evolved over time? what is your definition of it today? get specific. ⊹ who in your life do you want to build a deeper relationship with? (be direct and tell them) ⊹ what question have you avoided asking someone? what question have you avoided asking yourself? ⊹ what area of your life have you made the most progress in recently? get specific. take a moment to congratulate yourself. ⊹ what part(s) of yourself have you been minimizing that you're ready to finally own? permission to own it). ⊹ who do you feel misunderstood by? what do you wish they would come to understand? ⊹ what lesson in love took you the longest\n to learn? ⊹ what act of kindness from a stranger will you never forget? ⊹ what has brought you the most unexpected joy recently? ⊹ what has your heart been telling you that you've been ignoring? ⊹ what have you not forgiven that hurts you the most? ⊹ what have you envied in the past that you can laugh at now? ⊹ what door are you most grateful for closing that felt like the end of the world at the time? what did it open for you? ⊹ what do you wish you had the courage to do? to say? ⊹ what blame have you been placing on someone else that you can take some accountability for? ⊹ what have you become newly aware of within yourself recently? get specific. ⊹ wildcard: set an intention for today, this month and this year. write it out. ⊹ wildcard: spend at least 5 minutes in nature today. be still and observe. what did you notice? ⊹ wildcard: write down 3 things you're most grateful for in this present moment. big or small.
inner circle expansion pack WE'RE NOT REALLY STRANGERS x red table talk	⊹ what do you think i'm most sensitive to? ⊹ what do you think my main love language is?	⊹ what's the hardest truth you had to face this past year? ⊹ what's brought you the most unexpected joy recently? ⊹ who in your life do you feel you can be most vulnerable with? explain. ⊹ have i ever challenged your worldview? how so? ⊹ what is a moment in our relationship that you felt undeniably loved? ⊹ how can i add 1% more happiness to your life? ⊹ a perfect day together would be _________. ⊹ what's the most fun you can remember having with me recently? ⊹ how can i best support you in this chapter in your life? ⊹ what's a feeling you're uncomfortable sharing with me? ⊹ what are you currently working through that i don't see? ⊹ when's the last time you felt lucky to be you? ⊹ when's the last time i surprised you? ⊹ when was the last time you felt most yourself? ⊹ wildcard: sing your favorite song lyrics you can think of off the top of your head. both players. ⊹ wildcard: ask me something you think is off limits. both players. ⊹ wildcard: draw your favorite memory with me. both players. compare. ⊹ wildcard: set an intention for this next week. stick to it. (both players) ⊹ wildcard: finish the sentence: when i'm hurt i _________. both players.	⊹ what are you proudest of me for? ⊹ what's something we should celebrate together? ⊹ you've shown me _________ about myself. ⊹ wildcard: finish the sentence: thank you for _________. both players.
quarantine edition WE'RE NOT REALLY STRANGERS	⊹ what do you think i've been binge watching lately? ⊹ what do you think has been my go to snack during this time? ⊹ what time do you think i've been waking up these days? ⊹ do you think i'm mainly cooking or postmating?	⊹ what are you most excited for today? big or small? ⊹ what would feel best to fully accept in this current moment? ⊹ wildcard: share your screen time. both players. ⊹ what can you create during this time with exavtly what you have? big or small. ⊹ what's the most fun you've had during this time? ⊹ what's the most valuable lesson this time has taught you so far? ⊹ what's been the hardest part of all this for you? permission to vent. ⊹ wildcard: staring contest. first to smile must reveal what their kitchen looks like in this current moment. ⊹ what movie do you wish you'd never seen so can watch it for the first time during quarantine? ⊹ what's been the kindest thing someone has done for you during this time? what's been the kindest thing you've done for yourself? ⊹ wildcard: share your most played song at the moment. ⊹ when quarantining is behind us, what change do you want to make in your day to day life, if any?	⊹ if you made a playlist for me, what 3 songs would be on it? ⊹ what do i need to watch as soon as i have the time? ⊹ how can i best be there for you during this chapter? ⊹ wildcard: who's been on your mind lately? send them a text letting them know you're thinking of them. both players.
relationship expansion pack WE'RE NOT REALLY STRANGERS	⊹ how important do you think birthdays and holidays are to me? explain. ⊹ who do you think was more nervous on our first date? explain. ⊹ what do you think my perfect date night would be? ⊹ what was the first thing you noticed about me? ⊹ what assumption did you make about me that turned out to be false? ⊹ on a scale of 1-10, how open do you feel i am with you? explain.	⊹ what would a day of completely spoiling me look like? ⊹ the hardest thing for me to reveal about myself to you was _____. ⊹ how does one earn your trust? have i earned it? how can i earn it more? ⊹ what has this relationship taught you about yourself? ⊹ what’s the most romantic thing i’ve done for you recently? ⊹ what’s one small way i can be a better partner? ⊹ what’s the most attractive thing i do without realizing it? ⊹ what did our worst argument teach you? ⊹ wildcard: write down one small way you can be better in this relationship. both players. compare. ⊹ what are you currently working through that i don’t see, if anything? ⊹ what song best describes our relationship? ⊹ do you think my job affects me positive or negatively? how does it affect us? ⊹ what have you been extra sensitive to lately? ⊹ what feelings are hard for you to communicate to me? how can i make it easier? ⊹ what immediately attracted you to me? what attracted you more over time? ⊹ on a scale of 1-10 write down the importance of having kids to you. compare and explain. ⊹ wildcard: write down the top 3 things your partner does that makes you feel most loved. both players. compare. ⊹ what’s the best gift i’ve given you? material and immaterial? ⊹ what about you feels hardest to love? ⊹ what do you wish we did more of? ⊹ what made you fall in love with me? ⊹ what’s the most important lesson a past relationship has taught you? ⊹ finish the sentence: thank you for accepting _____. ⊹ are there any insecurities from previous relationships that you carried into this one? if so, what are they? ⊹ wildcard: write a love song for your partner. 1 minute. perform for each other. ⊹ what recent experience made you feel closer to me? ⊹ wildcard: write down the title you would give this chapter of our relationship. compare. ⊹ wildcard: write a short guide of how to love your partner well. 30 seconds. compare. ⊹ how do our strengths and weaknesses complement each other? ⊹ what have i helped you appreciate about yourself? ⊹ wildcard: draw one of your favorite memories from our relationship. 30 seconds. compare. ⊹ how do i show you that i love you without telling you? ⊹ when was the last time i hurt you, perhaps unintentionally? ⊹ how have you seen me grow in this relationship? ⊹ have i helped you change your mind about anything? ⊹ wildcard: ask your partner something you’ve never asked them before. ⊹ how does our age difference, or lack thereof, affect us? if at all? ⊹ what fear do you think holds me back the most? ⊹ what’s one small way we can improve our sex life?	⊹ what answer of mine surprised you most throughout this game, if any? ⊹ is there anything you still don’t know about me that you wish you did? ⊹ wildcard: write down the top 3 things you’re most grateful for in your partner. 30 seconds. compare. ⊹ what goal would feel best for you to accomplish this year? how can i support you in that? ⊹ wildcard: write down your intention for our relationship. compare. ⊹ what don’t i give myself enough credit for? ⊹ what about our relationship are you proudest of? ⊹ what did this conversation teach you about our relationship? what did it teach you about yourself? ⊹ thank you for helping me realize _____ about myself.
XXX WE'RE NOT REALLY STRANGERS	⊹ what turns you off that other people seem to love? ⊹ how would you describe what an orgasm feels like to someone who’s never had one before? ⊹ how often do you use protection? honestly. ⊹ if you could only do one sex position for the rest of your life, what would it be? ⊹ out of the group, who do you think has the most nudes on their phone? ⊹ would you be a third for a couple? what would the ideal circumstances be? ⊹ describe your first time giving head. get specific! ⊹ what color underwear do you think i’m wearing? ⊹ how many sex toys do you think i own? ⊹ how many people do you think i’ve slept with? ⊹ do you think i’m shaved right now? why or why not? ⊹ what instantly makes someone hot? ⊹ finish the sentence: honestly, there’s nothing sexier than ______. ⊹ what’s something you can’t find hot or attractive no matter how hard you try? ⊹ how many rounds do you think i can do in bed? explain. ⊹ what are you most attracted to that isn’t physical? ⊹ is it a red flag if a sexual partner is still in touch with an ex? why or why not? ⊹ what’s your favorite part of your body? permission to brag! ⊹ what do you think my dms look like right now? ⊹ what’s the sexiest movie ever made? ⊹ how jealous do i seem on a scale of 1-10? explain. ⊹ do i look like a moaner, a screamer, or a heavy breather? ⊹ if your camera roll went public, would you be able to run for president? ⊹ has anyone in the group ever named a private body part? what did you name it? ⊹ what’s a “non-sexual” body part you find attractive? explain. ⊹ what song is definitely going on your sex playlist? ⊹ do you think i like to cuddle after sex? why or why not? ⊹ when’s the last time you ditched plans with friends for a hookup? was it worth it? ⊹ the art of taking a good nude is _____. ⊹ have you ever been someone’s first time? how did it go? ⊹ do i give off more top or bottom energy? ⊹ do you think i’ve ever had sex in public? why or why not? ⊹ wildcard: if you like when people spit in your mouth, take a drink. ⊹ who in the group is most likely to develop feelings for someone they’ve been sleeping with casually? ⊹ have you ever had sex with a friend? are you still friends with them? ⊹ if i were in a sex scene, what would my character be? who am i sleeping with? what’s the movie called? ⊹ who in this group is most likely to say the wrong name in bed? ⊹ what quality has gotten sexier to you as you’ve gotten older? ⊹ what assumptions do people make about your sexuality? are they right or wrong? ⊹ do i seem comfortable with period sex? why or why not? ⊹ whose sex life are you most curious about? what do you want to know? ⊹ what’s the most out of the way you’ve gone to hook up with someone? was it worth it? ⊹ do you think i check who my partner follows on social media? why or why not? ⊹ how often do you think i fake my orgasms? ⊹ who was your first celebrity crush? ⊹ name one thing better than sex. ⊹ how sexually open do i seem on a scale of 1-10? explain. ⊹ how many times do you think i’ve had to purchase plan b? ⊹ do you think i’ve ever cheated on someone? why or why not? ⊹ when do you feel your sexiest? ⊹ what’s your go to outfit when you’re going to a booty call? ⊹ what was the last thirst trap you posted? who was it for? ⊹ what was your first impression of sex? ⊹ what’s your definition of cheating? ⊹ do you think i tend to make the first move or wait for the other person to initiate? why? ⊹ if your first time was a song, what would it be called? ⊹ what do you think my go-to sex position is? ⊹ how do you define great sex? get specific. ⊹ what do you think i’d be like in bed based on my style alone? ⊹ what does my social media tell you about my sex life? ⊹ if you were directing a sex scene, what song would be playing? ⊹ what’s the hottest thing that’s ever happened to you on a date? ⊹ if your sex life was a netflix series, what would it be called? ⊹ what did you once find sexy that you no longer do? ⊹ what’s the sexiest job someone can have? least sexy? explain. ⊹ do you think i like giving head? why or why not? ⊹ what do you think my type is? explain in detail. ⊹ what do you think my age range would be on a dating app? ⊹ do you think i’ve ever questioned my sexuality? have i ever acted on it? ⊹ do you think i’ve ever had a one night stand? why or why not? ⊹ if i were a pornstar, which category would i be in? ⊹ what sex position is overrated? explain.	⊹ who felt like the perfect fit? ⊹ wildcard: show the group a recent thirst trap and / or nude. ⊹ would you ever have sex with the person who was your first time again? why or why not? ⊹ what’s the most sexually open experience you’ve ever had? ⊹ what’s something you hesitated to try in bed but ended up loving? ⊹ has anyone been to a sex party? would you go again? ⊹ how long does sex last for you on average? how long would you like it to? ⊹ what is proper cum clean-up etiquette from your point of view? ⊹ what do you want to know about your partner’s sexual past, if anything? ⊹ what physical qualities matter most to you in a partner? ⊹ has someone’s energy ever turned you on, even if they weren’t your physical type? ⊹ what’s the most surprising thing you’ve used to masturbate? ⊹ top or bottom? or both? explain. ⊹ what sexual encounter could you base a whole movie on? ⊹ what’s one of your limits in the bedroom? ⊹ what do you crave in bed that you aren’t asking for? ⊹ was the last time you had sex as fulfilling as you wanted it to be? why or why not? ⊹ does monogamy feel right for you? why or why not? ⊹ social norms aside, what would your ideal relationship look like? ⊹ how would you describe your flirting style? ⊹ what’s the nastiest room you’ve ever had sex in? describe it in detail. ⊹ do you have a preference when it comes to hair down there? explain. ⊹ there’s just something about a _____. ⊹ what are your favorite types of nudes to receive? get specific. ⊹ what’s the most surprising thing that’s ever turned you on in bed? ⊹ does anyone have a piece of advice that changed their sex life? share with the group. ⊹ what’s your go-to move when you want the sex to wrap up? ⊹ how do you like to receive head? get very specific. ⊹ has anyone ever slept with an ex’s friend? was it worth it? ⊹ what’s your biggest sexual pet peeve? ⊹ spit or swallow? all players answer. ⊹ what’s the worst head you’ve ever given? what did it teach you? ⊹ what’s the worst head you’ve ever gotten? why? ⊹ what’s the most amount of pain you can tolerate in the bedroom on a scale of 1-10? ⊹ has your search history ever gotten you in trouble? explain. ⊹ has anyone been peed on or peed on someone else? how would you rate the experience? ⊹ what was the most surprising thing you’ve been asked to do in bed? did you do it? ⊹ finish the sentence: not to brag, but i could teach a class on _____. ⊹ what’s your sexual love language? ⊹ what’s something you tried once in bed and would never do again? ⊹ has size ever been a deal breaker for you? ⊹ if your partner gave you a free pass to fuck someone else, who would you use it on? no celebrities. ⊹ what would your younger self not believe about your sex life today? ⊹ have you ever considered being in an open relationship? why or why not? ⊹ what did you once believe about sex that turned out to be false? ⊹ when was the last time you faked an orgasm? why? ⊹ when was the last time you did something for the first time in bed? ⊹ wildcard: clap at the speed you like to have sex. ⊹ what about your ex stood out sexually? ⊹ what’s the most secure you’ve ever felt in bed with someone? ⊹ what are you still trying to unlearn about sex? ⊹ maturing sexually is realizing _____. ⊹ name a celebrity of the same sex that you’d hook up with. ⊹ how often would you be having sex if it were up to you? ⊹ where’s the craziest place you’ve done it? ⊹ how often do you fake your orgasms? explain. ⊹ where did the best sex of your life take place? ⊹ what’s the biggest age gap you’ve had with a sexual partner? how did it affect things? ⊹ if you could change one thing about your current sex life, what would it be? ⊹ who do you wish you could unfuck? why? ⊹ has the sex ever been a dealbreaker for you in a relationship? ⊹ has your sexuality evolved over time? how so? ⊹ what’s one thing you take for granted about your current sexual partner? ⊹ what turns you on the most about the last person you had sex with? ⊹ what’s an insecurity that you had in bed that you’ve grown out of? ⊹ what’s one part of your sex game that you can honestly say needs work? ⊹ describe the worst sex you’ve ever had in detail. ⊹ has a couple ever asked you to be their third? were they successful? ⊹ does your partner’s sexual history make you scared or curious? ⊹ has jealousy ever turned you on? explain. ⊹ what’s a compliment you’ve gotten in bed that you still think about? ⊹ what do you get complimented on the most in bed? permission to brag. ⊹ what do you hate to ask for but love to receive? ⊹ how would you rate your head game on a scale of 1-10? what’s one way you could improve your score? ⊹ the best way to get me into bed is _____. ⊹ have you ever had successful casual sex? what made it work? ⊹ what sex advice would you give your younger self? ⊹ what sex position always gets you off? ⊹ what do you tend to overthink in bed? ⊹ has anyone ever experimented with bdsm? share your experience with the group. ⊹ condom or no condom? explain. ⊹ have you ever had a sex related injury? explain. ⊹ who was the biggest disappointment for you in bed? why? ⊹ what are you attracted to that you know isn’t good for you? ⊹ what are you still trying to prove to yourself sexually? ⊹ what’s an unpopular opinion you have about sex? ⊹ have you ever hooked up with someone you weren’t supposed to? was it worth it? ⊹ who got away with treating you the worst because the sex was so good? what did they get away with? ⊹ what position never fails to make you cum? get specific. ⊹ what do you think about to avoid cumming too fast?	⊹ wildcard: give the group a tutorial on how to give great head? get specific. ⊹ ask an xxx question to the player who’s been the quietest during this game. ⊹ who’s the last person you remember masturbating to? ⊹ do you have a sexual soulmate? do they know? ⊹ who do you miss fucking the most? what do you miss? ⊹ what’s your sexual superpower? permission to brag. ⊹ have you ever cheated? have you ever been cheated on? ⊹ finish the sentence: okay guys hear me out, but _____. ⊹ wildcard: share your search history with the group. ⊹ what would i get rich on onlyfans for? ⊹ have you ever squirted or made someone squirt? ⊹ has anyone ever been double penetrated? did you enjoy it? ⊹ whose “u up?” text will you always consider? ⊹ have you ever had an orgasm without any direct stimulation? how was it achieved? ⊹ have you ever fantasized about one of your friends’ partners? did you ever act on it? ⊹ wildcard: send a risky text to anyone in your phone. ⊹ what’s the sluttiest thing you’ve ever done? ⊹ what would your life be like if you married your first sexual partner? ⊹ have you ever paid for a sexual experience? was it worth the money? ⊹ has anyone had sex in public? where were you? did you like it? ⊹ my favorite way to masturbate is _____. set the scene. ⊹ if they _____, i’ll fuck them immediately. ⊹ what’s your special spot? (you know the one.) ⊹ have you ever used sex to gain power in a situation? did it work? ⊹ when was the last time you imagined someone else in bed that wasn’t your partner? who was it? ⊹ have any of your sexual fantasies come true? share with the group. ⊹ what’s the sexiest you remember feeling recently? ⊹ has anyone ever pegged or been pegged? share your experience with the group. ⊹ if you have a foot fetish, raise your hand! what do you love so much about feet? ⊹ they’re definitely a freak if ______. ⊹ wildcard: give any player free reign of your camera roll. they get to choose one picture to show the group. ⊹ what do you always get in your head about in bed? ⊹ what’s your ideal roleplay scenario? get specific. ⊹ what’s made you cum that surprised you the most? ⊹ what do you like to be called in the bedroom? ⊹ what’s the most embarrassing thing you’ve done in the bedroom while intoxicated? ⊹ would it turn you on to have someone watch you have sex? who would you want to watch? ⊹ in your wildest fantasy, who would you be with? where would you be? what would you be doing? ⊹ what about your sexuality took you the longest to accept, if anything? ⊹ what’s the most unexpected thing to remember masturbating to? ⊹ would you eat someone out if they were on their period? would you let someone eat you out? ⊹ what about your sexuality are you still learning to embrace? ⊹ what’s the hardest you remember cumming? ⊹ what’s the wettest / hardest you remember being? ⊹ who likes a finger in their butt during sex? describe how you like it. ⊹ what’s something you’d try in bed if there were no consequences? ⊹ what’s one subtle thing you do when you really like someone? ⊹ what’s the sexiest thing about me that isn’t physical? group answers for the card holder. ⊹ what was the most inconvenient time you’ve been turned on? ⊹ what turns you on that only your sexual partners would know? get specific. ⊹ what would my pornstar name be, and what would i be known for? ⊹ if you could watch any two celebrities fuck, who would they be? ⊹ have you ever tasted yourself? ⊹ give your last sexual partner an honest yelp review. ⊹ what insecurity holds you back the most in bed? ⊹ where do you like your partner to finish? where do you like to? ⊹ what’s the most vivid sex dream you’ve ever had? describe in detail. ⊹ what about your sex life feels hard to admit? ⊹ what body part(s) turn you on the most? ⊹ what do you like to hear in bed? get specific. ⊹ what’s the hottest thing someone has ever done to you in bed? get specific. ⊹ what’s the best sex you’ve ever had? describe it in detail. why was it so great? ⊹ what’s the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you in bed that you can laugh at now? ⊹ what’s the hottest thing someone has ever said to you in bed? ⊹ where’s the most unexpected place you’ve ever masturbated? ⊹ on a scale of 1-10, how hard do you like to be choked? 1 meaning not at all, 10 meaning no air. ⊹ has a private part ever left a lasting impression? explain. ⊹ have you ever eaten ass or had your ass eaten? thoughts?